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Aunty Bella: Miss Terribly Embarrassed & Depressed

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Aunty Bella is our  agony aunt column on BellaNaija. We launched this column in the early days of BN and periodically feature issues sent in by BN readers. 
We hope the BN family can offer insightful advice.
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Hi, Aunt Bella,
Please advice me on what to do. I’m a lady in her middle twenties. And I’m struggling with depression and inferiority complex.
I just feel cheated most times. I don’t have a man, in fact men do not ask me out. The few that did, broke my heart.

I’ve been single since 2013.

Most of my mates are out of school, some are working, I’m still in school plus I’m in 3rd class.

I feel terribly embarrassed when I meet my secondary school mates. Sometimes I get a little bit jealous of my peers. I know I ought not to compare my self with others but most times, I feel terribly depressed and lonely with no motivation to move forward.
Nothing motivates me anymore. I’ve lost all hope in my self. I’m just moving with the motions. Please I need help.

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